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Bella - Summer Hill

honouring and deepening human sexuality

Transformation through Tantric Touch

Sensual Tantric Massage, Healing Tantric Bodywork,  

and Sacred Sexuality inspired Sex Coaching.

For men, women and couples.

Bella, Summer Hill, Sydney.

ph: 0403690456





About Bella

I innately understand sexuality on a deep level, and I have a gift in intuiting and guiding the movement of your energy.  Healing hands … presence … a loving heart … intuition … wisdom,  intelligence and a sound knowledge base are the tools of my trade.   Attending workshops and classes has helped hone my natural gifts but it is my own intuition and personal experiences in sexual energy and the movement of it within my own body which has given me experiential wisdom.

Of course some people are shy or nervous when they come and see a tantric practitioner for the first time, but I have a genuinely down to earth, friendly and caring personality.  You will feel at ease, the moment our eyes meet and you see my warm smile when I open the door.

Tantric massage sessions with me are  nourishing, empowering, and potentially life changing.

For Men

In a Tantric Massage

My intention is to facilitate an experience which shows you what you are capable of feeling – sexually, sensually, and energetically.   I help create a whole body orgasmic pleasure, and it gives you the keys to recreate the experience in your own life.  It is a deeply relaxing, healing, sensual and nourishing massage, which can leave you full of energy for days.  This is a sublime and sensual, world class experience.  (I have genuinely been told this - See my praise section below.) Gifted at intuiting, arousing and spreading your sexual energy around your body, you will experience a state of pleasure and relaxation so profound it could change the way you view your sexual energy for all time.  It is not an overwhelming experience.  If you simply need a thoughtful, intimate sensual connection, this is the service for you, as I will meet you where you are at, and then take you further than you’ve ever been before.  This session can include prostate massage – just let me know.

1 hour 300    1.5 hrs 350      2 hours 450       3 hours 600
Please add $50 to all offerings if you require an outcall to cbd or inner suburbs. 

In my Tantra inspired sex coaching Sessions

As a coach, I walk beside you on your journey to achieve your sexual spiritual goals.

Suitable for: 

Healing and coaching for ejaculation mastery and erectile issues

Sexual expansion and empowerment

Healing relationship issues and resolving sexual trauma

Returning to natural erotic innocence

Returning to or awakening to pleasure

Pleasure and intimacy coaching

Opening your genital heart spiritual connection

Achieving sexual mastery.

Utilising breath work, body awareness meditation techniques,  connection, presence and energy exercises, access bars sessions, tantric bodywork, energetic bodywork, de-armouring work, and prostate massage could be included.  Once I know more about you, I will create your unique program. 

 2 hours 400   3 sessions  950 (400, 300,250, pay as you go)

For Women

I provide a safe space for you to relax into being the full body sensual, orgasmic energy filled woman you are.  I touch you with great presence, love and respect.  It is truly an honour to go on this odyssey with you.  Whether you come for healing or to gift yourself a pleasurable experience, a tantric massage for women is always healing.

It is  unfortunately quite common for women to have suffered abuse, to have had a history of unloving or unarousing touch,  to feel shut down or numb sexually, or to have never had the experience of full body pleasure that we are capable of.   We are naturally full body orgasmic, when our bodies are approached in the right way.

As women, our greatest power lies in connecting with our heart, our womb, and our yoni.

If a yoni massage is desired and appropriate for you, I’ll do a yoni massage.  Sometimes it’s appropriate in the first session, and sometimes it takes a couple of sessions before you feel ready.  We’ll decide together.  Your boundaries, needs and desires are respected at all times.

A yoni massage is a deeply healing experience.  Usually, this sacred part of our bodies is touched for either sexual reasons, or medical reasons.   While I am touching you with a healing intention, pleasure is a wonderful part of this experience.  Pleasure in itself is deeply healing.

A yoni massage takes place after a relaxing and sensual full body massage.  Particular attention is paid to your non-genital erogenous zones.  A sensual and healing tantric massage for women heals and connects the heart, the belly, the womb, the ovaries and the yoni.

Sessions with women begin with a gentle and open conversation, where I get to find out more about you and how I can best help you.

Since beginning my tantric practice, I have noticed a definite increase in the number of women coming for healing tantric massage.

Sessions for women go for around 2 and a half hours.   $400


For Couples

In a private, intimate, friendly, fun and sexy session,  come and celebrate and deepen your intimate connection. 


TANTRIC INTIMACY- 1 x 4 hour session and 2 x 3 HOUR SESSIONS - $2000


The session brings a lot of closeness and warmth to couples.

Its a very positive experience of itself - and it gives you a lot to go on with.

Probably … most of the problems in relationships could be rectified with a reorientation to the masculine and feminine polarities and with the wonderful effects this would have on a couplessex life.

I can help couples adjust love making for later stages of life or to accommodate different conditions.

 I help couples improve their connection through touch and intimacy

Teach you how to expand your sexual energy and sexual experience together.

Return to the simplicity of connection.


TANTRIC INTIMACY - 1x4 hours and 2 X3 HOUR SESSIONS $2000

For couples, sex is a journey, and it should only get better and better.  Sexual intimacy will make or break a love story.   Strengthening the sexual polarities brings healing to loving couples.  Dissatisfaction in the bedroom will leach out and pervade all your interactions.  Young or older, wise or naive, feeling connected or feeling disconnected, this is an beautiful opportunity to share and grow in love together.  

We will cover:



The Power of Presence

Orgasmicness, Valley Orgasms and Peak Orgasms, all sorts of Orgasms

Heart/Genital Connections

Sensing and Working with Energy

The Curious Inquiring Mystery Tours of the Bodies Erogenous Zones and Orgasmic Capacities




Energetic Merging

And the various luscious and thoughtful tips and tricks of the sensual tantric masseuse.  


“Dear Bella. We are now back in the “real world”, and both have the most incredible memories of Friday night. Truly a most spiritual encounter. Thank you for your kindness, honour and understanding. You’ve positively changed our futures. I hope we may meet again.

To discuss or book a session today

Phone Bella

ph: 0403690456




Thank you for yesterday. It was a beautiful, indeed, potentially life changing experience. I will never be the same again, and I thank you again. (Sydney)

Thanks so much for today, it was very spiritual and healing for me. I really appreciate the love and kindness you showed me.  (Woman - Sydney)

Thanks again, so much, for today. It's still difficult to wrap my mind around the experience as I still don't know exactly where I went - other than knowing it was a very good place! First steps on what I hope can be a long and fulfilling journey. (Sydney)

Hi Bella, thank you for an amazing experience on Friday night. We both enjoyed it immensely and it was a great start to a wonderful weekend.  (Couple- Sydney)

Just a note to say a profound thank you for the time we spent together yesterday. It really was a divine experience and reassuring that, what I thought was a chronic condition, can be completely controlled in such a beautiful way. Your understanding was very much appreciated. (Australia)

“Thank you so much for our session together on Monday. I found you very warm and caring and really enjoyed the experience. You’ve given me renewed confidence and the raw material for a different approach to the sensual side of life. It’s very clear why you have such wonderful testimonials on your website. Thank you again and best regards — (Sydney)

We are now back in cold, freezing Norway, and I wanted to say thank you once again - for the mindblowing experience you gave us both last week. Spending a few hours with you was just amazing, and a true eye opener to a new world of  emotions? feelings? sexual awareness? intimacy and "near-ness"?  I don`t know exactly how to describe it - and I`m not sure how we will move on - but we both agree that we will, one way or the other.  So again - thank you for your kindness and your friendly guiding towards - something completely different - and great! Lots of love from W & R  (Couple from Norway -Sydney)

“Dearest Bella! Thanks so so much for the exhilarating experience yesterday. Your gentleness & sensitivity melted me into my own softness & tenderness. I really enjoyed feeling the soft sensation within ALL of my body. It was the first time in my life yesterday that I allowed multiple orgasms to seep through me. I loved breathing the sexual energy up! Ahhh... How heavenly! Loved the energy vibrating in my throat too. Thanks for introducing me to Tantra in such a graceful & easy to understand way! So much love and gratitude, xox. (Woman, Sydney)Hi Bella, Just a personal note to say thank you and wow! That was truly a significant experience. We were exhausted for the rest of the day and I imagine it must take it out of you as well. Thank you for being so special and supportive. It was a safe and incredibly sexy space to learn about awakening something so significant. I was mesmerised by you and at the same time you would in a way disappear so we could experience this together. You truly are a master. (Male, Couples Session, Sydney)“Hi Bella, Thank you so much for yesterday’s session. It was incredible and has inspired me in so many ways. (Sydney)

I can’t thank you enough. Intimacy with my wife has been much more frequent & more satisfying since our session. We no longer start with the baseline of we are going to have intercourse, its just not about that now, rather its about connecting our hearts. Of course this often does end up in sex, but not always & it doesn’t matter either way. For my wife, this is revolutionary. In so many ways, she has been trying to communicate this to me, but my masculine head never understood. What I needed was to reawaken my heart. Also, now that I move my sexual energy, I don’t need orgasm to thoroughly enjoy sexual arousal. Its wonderful to be really aroused at the time & its vitality when its moved through my body - of course orgasm is really pleasurable as well!  (Sydney)

Hi Bella, Thank you for the most incredible experience. I didn't know what to expect from a 4 hours session - but what I experienced was transformative. I can't wait to further explore this new journey we are on ... Thank you for taking the time to really talk us through everything in such depth and with such passion.We will stay in touch! (Woman, Couples Session, Sydney)

Dear Bella, I am so glad that I came all the way from Paris to have with you a truly unique and magical tantric experience.  You are a very unique person and although I have had many tantric massages before in my travels around the word, I was sincerely touched like never before and not only on my body, but in the emotions that you gave me. You are so generous and authentic. The 2 hours spent in your hands provided me so much that you can count on me to return whenever I'll be back in Sydney. Thanks for all the love that you put into the gift that I received today with this beautiful "voyage".   Warmly  - (a Parisian in Sydney)

Thank you so much for an amazing time last week. It was incredible to once again feel your
loving touch and melt away into a heavenly world of delicious pleasure. (Australia)

Hi Bella, thank you so much for the experience in our session today. You showed me so much tenderness and understanding - it was an amazing feeling. I hope we can meet again soon. x (Australia)

Hi Bella, thank you very much again for the great experience.  i still feel very deeply relaxed, very much inside.  It’s wonderful.   (Woman - Sydney)

“Good Morning Bella, Quite a few years ago, (possibly 2011) I came to see you for one of your sexual healing sessions. You were kind and understanding of the fact that my sexual problems ran quite deep & caused me to not be able to commit to a relationship or even get involved in any kind of sexual relationship.
We sat for possibly well over an hour & we talked as though we were old friends, you touched me in ways that made me feel safe & secure & in ways that I felt it was impossible for someone to connect with me. Afterwards you took me to the bed to help me control myself when it came to orgasms.
Anyway, I had always planned to come back & visit you for more sessions to help me gain control over my mind & body but shortly after our session I was required to go to sea for 6 months as I was serving in the Royal Australian Navy. I came back a broken man, depression & PTSD controlled my life for quite a long time due to the things I saw & did while I was away. But in 2012 I met a girl & I we started dating (my first real relationship) she helped me with my issues & I helped her with hers. We both were in need of healing mentally & sexually. Then I realized, the reason I was able to help was because of the things you had taught me, about the fact that a relationship is not just about the sex but about a more deep connection. I felt as though a huge weight had been lifted. The good things that have happened since I can only put down to the connection you had with me for that short period of time. I am now married, coming up to 2 years in February, and I owe everything I have to you. Had I never seen you I don’t know where i would have ended up. My wife knows everything, she knows I once saw you & she completely understands why. I hope you are doing as well as I am & thank you for helping me connect. All my love & best wishes to you. (Sydney.)

The way i understood my first tantric massage experience is that slowing down and taking the time for pleasure can be a very beautiful experience.  The time spent with you felt so natural and easy.  I enjoyed each sensation, the flow of conversation, and the rapport developed in such a brief time.  You helped me to realise that there is nothing more natural and beautiful than to be yourself.  All these years I've held myself back from people getting to know me, and after today, I feel more connected and willing to open up again.  Thank you Bella, beautiful soul. xo (Woman, Sydney)  

Hi Bella,  I just wanted to thank you for such a lovely experience.
I feel as if this relaxed smiley feeling could be with me for days.   (Sydney)

“It was a chance I took coming to see you as I wasn’t sure how my partner would take it, but I think it paid off in many ways and we are still seeing the benefits even now, a month later – thank you, Bella, for facilitating this for us! And thank you for a very special evening and for sharing your wisdom and knowledge with us. You are a very special lady and I hope that we can meet again in the not too distant future. — (Couple-Sydney)Hi Bella, This is just a quick note to thank you again for the absolutely incredible journey that you took me on. The experience I had was something so unique and I feel extremely privileged to have not only experienced it, but to have shared it with you. Your ability to engage and relax me quickly was fantastic, along with your incredibly sensual, sexy and down to earth nature. You are an extremely warm and giving person with a genuinely loving soul, something rare to find in people these days. To say your massage was relaxing and pleasurable is an absolute understatement. You managed to play my body like an instrument, deciding how and when to move energy throughout and ensuring that I received the best possible experience. I still cannot comprehend what you accomplished, accept to say that it was the most intense, pleasurable, and relaxing experience I have ever had in my life. I think you were extremely modest in your comments that a lot of the outcome was my doing. You are obviously an extremely gifted human being, with an ability far beyond most mere mortals! You have opened my eyes to something that is so powerful and so incredibly enjoyable that I am now going to have to continue this journey of discovery and am eager to learn and experience more. Thank you for an experience of a lifetime, and I cannot wait to meet you again to experience more and learn from such a beautiful and talented person. (Australia)

Hi Bella, I just want to thank you again for the session J and I had with you. It was an amazing introduction into the world of Tantra and it was just what we were after. The best part is you were able to make J totally relax and enjoy the experience. That session has definitely brought us closer together and rekindled that spark. Thank you again.  (Couple -Sydney)

Hi Bella I just want to say wow again that was a truly unique and wonderful experience. Thanks once again. (Australia)

“Thank you again for today, it was one of the most profound experiences I’ve ever had. Complete abandon and a total union of the physical and energetic body in a way I’ve never felt ... and all in complete safety. — (Woman - Sydney)

Thank you Bella, I can't tell you what a difference the session made between my boyfriend and I. (Woman - Sydney)


Dear Bella. We are now back in the "real world", and both have the most incredible memories of Friday night. Truly a most spiritual encounter. Thank you for kindness, honour and understanding. You've positively changed our futures. I hope we may meet again. (Couple - Sydney)

Thank you. You gave me the most personal and emotional experience I have ever had. (Australia)


“Believe me when I say that I don’t think there’s anyone who can do what you do, as well as you can!!!! You are a goddess and you have the touch, technique, beauty and presence to captivate and tantalise us mere mortal men!!! — (London)

Thank you so much for taking me on such a beautiful and magical journey and for being my tantric guide. I feel so alive! (Sydney)

Bella, that was so beautiful and loving. I am tingling all over, and will sleep well! (Sydney)

Hi Bella, I have been thinking of our session a lot – it was lovely.You really have a warm and comforting presence/manner. (Australia)“Bella, Bella, Bella. What an experience. Calm, soft, angelic, heavenly. Today you took me to a place I have never been before and what a journey. You made me feel safe and loved. I cannot wait for my next experience and chance to continue my journey to bliss. Forever present and in the now. — (Sydney)

Grazie Bella, Thank you for a most enlightening experience. Just a few words to describe you:  unique and beautiful, spiritual and worldly wise, obviously from your life experiences. You have a gossamer like touch when applying your delicate art form and the spirit of well being you placed me in was simply beyond description. (Sydney)

Since my separation from a long-term partner my self confidence has been at an all time low. Working with Bella has been a breath of fresh air. Her caring nature and extensive knowledge has not only given me my confidence back, but changed my whole outlook on life, love and relationships. Thanks Bella. (Australia) PS All true.

Thank you so much for such a relaxing time. You’ve already taught me so much and I look forward to our next time together. You’re such an amazing person with the kindest heart, and I hope to learn more from you in the future. Thanks.

“Beautiful heart: I have not met anyone quite like you and I am the better for our meeting, thank you. xx — (Australia)

Seeing Bella was an amazing whole body and mind experience. Bella is obviously an expert in her field and I am glad that I was able to meet her whilst she was in London. (London)

Bella,  Thank you for such a lovely experience. It was quite unique, for me at least. You were very kind, considerate and caring. So many questions I could ask you… Take care of yourself and best wishes. (Australia)

If you are reading this you are extremely fortunate. You have the opportunity to experience a wonderful, tantalizing, sensuous time in your precious life. You won’t be disappointed. Bella will take you to a blissful place which will leave you wondering why it took you so long to experience this level of peace and sense of fulfilment.    (Australia)

After our session you asked if I wanted to say anything but I was a little overwhelmed and unable to articulate my feelings at the time. Now, I understand this better. I have been fortunate enough to experience some success in my professional work, which can be extremely competitive and highly intellectual. However, I have known for some time that this has come with a loss of balance, not only between work and life, but also a loss of my centre. In my profession, one learns to nurture your intellect, tenacity and knowledge. These are of the head and not of the heart. You have helped to reawaken my heart. This is why your gift to me is profound. I now see that in meeting the demands of my professional success, my heart was being suppressed. This has transformed since meeting you and I am conscious of a deep compassion growing in me again. At the time I described this as love, which I think is a word that also fits. The compassion is familiar but very distant. When I was younger, I would nurture compassion in part through meditation. Sometimes when I went far into samadhi, my heart would expand beyond me and become part of the universe. This was the stage of my life when I entered my professional career and when I began to unconsciously suppress my heart. This was an emotional period for me and it is only now that I understand why. This is just one of a flood of insights that i have since gained from opening my heart. Some have led to a deeper understanding of my partner and our relationship. We have since been intimate and I experienced the valley of orgasms that you spoke about. The sensation was similar to what you showed me energetically,  but not the same. For example, the heart was still full, but energy was intensely moving from below, through my heart to one spot on the top of my head. I experienced several orgasms but did not ejaculate at all. We just ended naturally and satisfied. (Sydney)

In 4 short sessions while Bella was in Sydney, I made more progress than in the last 10 years. Every session I had a new and different, totally unique energetic experience – I had no idea my body could react that way. Bella shared her extensive experience and knowledge and made me feel completely comfortable. If you are anxious about seeing her, thats a sure sign you probably should make an appointment ASAP as, like me, it probably means you are allowing your head to control your body. Bella  can help you learn to change that! Thank you Bella for walking with me at the beginning of a new and exciting journey. (Woman Sydney)

“Bella is a Priestess of a sacred rite that is older than Abraham. She has shown me a way to loving kindness. Bella has an intelligent, sensitive and insightful approach to honouring her tradition. She opens connections to intrinsic, subtle energies and the greater Universal Life Force. She has also given me the most sensual life enhancing experiences of my life [five decades]. She has taken me to a place beyond mere earthly pleasure.— (Australia)

Thanks for today. Feel a lot calmer and much less stressed, except for that one squirrel who keeps running around in my head… And a lot less congested down in the nether regions. I will say that my session with you had a pretty big impact, some switch was turned on in my head that wont turn off (a good thing). … There is stuff out there I never knew could apply to me, and now the fun is working it all out - another adventure. 
 One of the more profound and transformational events that have happened to me in the last few months is the Bar Access exercise that you did on me. I still do not quite understand what happened but I walked away from our session fundamentally changed, rewired if you like; you said at the time it was one of the most effective modalities that you use and I believe that. Life’s little twists and turns have led me down some paths I would have never entertained a year ago, and it took a significant health event to trigger a search for alternate health methods to get me to where I am now - I am in far better health, mentally and physically that I have been for a long time - but there is more to go. Being a rationalist (mostly by training and upbringing) I have had to accept that I do not need to understand or rationalise for certain things to work. I would like to have another Bar Access session again one day. All the best, and thanks again for setting me on this path. It was been a very interesting few months, to say the least. At some point will do another bar ssession - as a brain adjustor it is unparalleled (in my experience).   (Sydney)

Crypt Fire

I am deep underground
In a stoney vault closer to the core Being tended to
By the hands of a woman

Her fingers are those of a cartographer Travelling the unknowns of my body Discovering new things:
Fiery highways down my thighs

Warm pools at the small of my back
Rivers snaking up my chest, cradling my jaw

Hamlets are around my nipples
Shepherdesses track along my tableland shoulders A lone campfire burns at my forehead

She wends her way over the spurs of my back Slides through the ravines skirting my sex
Her milky hands score my skin
And she patiently files away at my resistance Burning through my defensive cramps

I begin to moan like a ship at sea
Its hull massaged by a swelling current My hidden places are caressed
She knows my body

Soon she kneads me out
I’m a warm, golden cord stretched out over the mattress The fire in my sex tempers
And, like hot mercury
It pools out
Over the borders of my genitals
And into the temperate forests of my legs
Across the plains of my stomach
And laps gently at the roots of my chest

The energy does not flee
But rather grows from my member Two coals and a throbbing totem Watching over the controlled burn

When she is finished with me
I feel larger
Like I’m hanging from a tree on summer hill

I haven’t reached orgasm
Yet I feel like I have
The energy, instead of being shot out
Has been distributed in portions
To different sectors of my body
Like fertiliser on neglected parts of a garden

Learning to purely recieve pleasure One can learn how to truly give it

Know yourself like a house With its shadowed rooms And gleaming thrones

Learn the land of the body
Yours and someone else's
So you can both travel into each other And share the wonders
Of the fruit
Hidden within each other’s temple.  

(thank-you so much for this beautiful poem, Rohan, Sydney) 

And last but not least,

“You’re an extremely talented woman – but you know that, don’t you?

Courses and Qualifications

Kriya Yoga Initiation

2015, 2016, 2017
Reiki Tummo
- Level 1-6
Open Heart - Levels 1-6
Spiritual Retreat
Access BodyWork

Access Consciousness - Foundation, Level 1, 2 and 3
Access Bars Facilitator
Prioritise Your Pleasure - Online Course

Lomi Lomi Massage Course

Energetic Orgasm, Yoni and Lingham Massage, Awakening Within Foundation
Sex and Relationships Coaching with Andrew Barnes
Dakini Mentorship Training Sacred Sexual Priestess Training with Triambika from the Ecstatic Awareness Institute

Tantric Massage
Sacred Sexuality Practitioner Training with Baba Dez and Triambika from the Sedona Temple
Tantric Shamanic Bodywork with Carlos Jalon
Discovering Oneness – London Tantra Weekend with Luba Evans
Dancing the Divine – The Unleashing, Unfolding the Feminine Flower, The Course (These courses were a major investigation into feminine sexual energy)
Two day private Tantric Bodywork training with John Hawkens from The Tantric Path, UK

Quodoushka Level 1 and 2 (Native American Indian Sacred Sexualty Teachings)
Recapitulated Shamanic De-Armouring (a 14 day process where we used our sexual energy and breathing techniques to smash the body’s defensive armouring, freeing our minds and bodies from patterns which limit us, and gaining the ability to let sexual energy move freely through the body.)
Wild Nights – based on the work of David Deida
Sexological Bodywork, San Francisco, home study course

Thai Massage Level 1 and 2  (2001)
Five Rhythms and Contact Improvisation Dancing. Dancing has taught the most about myself and about moving energy in my body.
Reiki Level 1
Psychic Development
MA Social Ecology
BA Arts/Education