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Nic - Sydney and Wollongong

Nic - Sacred Sexual Healer

“My mission and passion is to provide my clients with the space, the skills and the permission to dig deep and open up to the fullness of who they are. To embrace, embody and express their true divine nature as an embodied, empowered, sacred sexual being.”

Offering: Tantric Massage – Sacred Sexual Healing – Intimacy & Relationship Coaching For Women, Men and Couples.

I am based in beautiful Coledale on Sydney's south coast and I am available for outcalls to Sydney and Wollongong areas.

May Special!  20% discount off all offerings!


Call Nic on: 0404 850143
Email: nic@nictovey.com
Website: www.nictovey.com


About Nic

In service to you I merge 13 years of experience in Transpersonal Counselling, Coaching, Energetic Healing, Tantra and Sacred Sexuality. You are held in a safe and sacred space to allow for a transformational healing experience to occur with deep respect and honour for you and your personal evolution.

The primary intention of my work is to meet you, to really meet you, where ever you are at, with whatever you bring. To hold space in loving presence as a clear and integrated channel of the divine. To SEE YOU as the divine spark that you are and to help you gain a deeper embodied realisation of your own true magnificence.

My life and work is fuelled by a passionate fire, motivated to serve LOVE, and Love is only truly realised within the sanctity of the Sacred Marriage; the union of masculine and feminine, within and without. My purpose is to help heal the wounds of separation, fear, abuse and oppression and bring humanity into wholeness with ourselves, each other and with our beautiful planet.

My personal journey to wholeness has taken me far, deep and wide, and is of course, ongoing. I have been gifted with many wonderful teachers, experiences and initiations, which, along with my innate intuitive gifts, combine to provide an integrated representation of the Sacred Masculine in service to you; grounded in presence, with a wild and open heart, and devoted in sacred purpose.

I look forward to serving you. 


For Women

I offer you an opportunity to be revered, liberated and worshipped as all that you are; your power, vulnerability, radiance and your wild mystery. This is an invitation to come home to yourself, to let go, surrender and allow yourself to be taken deep into your ocean of infinite bliss.

Your Sacred Sexual Healing session will be guided according to your unique needs, desires and boundaries, all of which will be clearly discussed and agreed upon prior to the commencement of the work.

Depending on your needs the session could follow many threads; there can be a combination of any or all of the following: coaching, emotional release, breath-work, meditation and visualisation, sensual massage, Yoni massage and Sacred Spot healing. This is your gift to yourself. Communication will remain open throughout the session and consent will always be sought before progressing.

During the session you will be guided to connect with your breath, your sensation, your arousal state and your emotions as they arise. Using body work and energetic techniques stored emotion, blocks and past trauma can be released. Here lies within the creative force of the universe; your sexual energy. As you harness the power of this energy you have an infinite resource of power, pleasure and passion available to be utilised in all areas of your life, not only your love life.

Whilst orgasm is never the “goal” in Sacred Sexual Healing, it is likely that you will experience heightened states of arousal and waves of full bodied orgasmic bliss. It is also likely that you could experience emotional release during the session as we access stores of repressed emotion; fear, anger, grief, Joy and ecstasy, all is welcome.

Sacred Sexual Healing Fees:

1.5 hrs: $350
2 hrs: $400
3 hrs: $550


Outcalls within the Sydney or Wollongong metropolitan areas are available for an additional $50.  

1, 2 and 3 day immersive residential retreats also available upon request.

Exquisite Loving Coaching Program

This is a 1 on 1 Relationship & Intimacy Coaching program catering to your personal and relational needs, and designed to help you master your relational life, regardless of your relationship status or preferences. Using a combination of video conference and face to face sessions we will work together on subjects such as:

  •   Empowered Vulnerability

  •   The Mystery of Man

  •   Energy Anatomy – Attuning your Physical, Emotional and Erotic body

  •   Whole Being Communication

  •   Overcoming the Barriers to Intimacy

  •   Sacred Union – The dance of the Masculine and Feminine, within and without

  •   Healthy Boundaries – Consent, needs and desires

  •   Exploring and Integrating Sexual Shadow

  •   Healing the Core Wounds – Abandonment & Rejection

  •   Self Love and moving from Shame

  •   Sexual Magic

  •   The Art of Conflict

  •   And much, much more

    Exquisite Loving Program Fee: $1997


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For Men

I offer you the opportunity to become a more present, embodied, vibrant and sexually masterful man. To come home and connect with the depth of who you are; physically, emotionally and spiritually, so you can then show up fully in all areas of your life. As a man who has been counselling and coaching men for the last 10 years, I have much to offer you.

As men we have been conditioned to be detached from our body, our emotions and our deep erotic nature, this limits any real intimate connection to a partner. This also means that sexually we are often either disconnected from or over powered by our sexual energy. Sexual energy is the most powerful force in the universe, it has the power to create as well as destroy. Therefore we have a responsibility to learn how to master its power.

When we unlock and master our sexual energy we can experience expansive levels of full bodied pleasure, we can help our partner open to experience states of ecstatic bliss, and together we can ride a wave of ecstasy for as long as we choose. Not only that, our sexual potency then becomes an infinite resource of creative power that we can utilise in all aspects of life. Our sexual energy can also be blocked because of past emotional, physical or sexual trauma. This is also catered for with honour, respect and safety.

Your Sacred Sexual Healing session will be guided according to your unique needs, desires and boundaries, all of which will be clearly discussed and agreed upon prior to the commencement of the work.

During the session you will be guided to connect with your breath, your sensation, your arousal state and your emotions as they arise. Using body work and energetic techniques stored emotion, blocks and past trauma can be released.

Depending on your needs the session could follow many threads; there can be a combination of any or all of the following: coaching, emotional release, breath-work, meditation and visualisation, and if desired or appropriate it may include massage, Lingam massage and Sacred Spot healing. This is your gift to yourself. Communication will remain open throughout the session and consent will always be sought before progressing.

Sacred Sexual Healing Fees:

1.5 hrs: $350
2 hrs: $400
3 hrs: $550
Outcalls within the Sydney or Wollongong metropolitan areas are available for an additional $50.

1, 2 and 3 day immersive residential retreats in a beautiful bush location are also available upon request.

Masterful Loving Coaching Program

This is a 1 on 1 Relationship & Intimacy Coaching program catering to your personal and relational needs, and designed to help you master your relational life, regardless of your relationship status or preferences. Using a combination of video conference and face to face sessions we will work together on subjects such as:

  •   The Power of Presence

  •   Attuning your Physical, Emotional and Erotic bodies

  •   Whole Being Communication

  •   Overcoming the Barriers to Intimacy

  •   Sexual Polarity – The dance of the Masculine and Feminine

  •   Healthy Boundaries – Consent, needs and desires

  •   Healing the Core Wounds – Abandonment & Rejection

  •   Self Love and moving from Shame

  •   Sexual Magic

  •   The Art of Conflict

  •   And much, much more

    Masterful Loving Program Fee: $1997 


My Healing Studio in Coledale.

For Couples

I combine my skills as a Relationship and Intimacy Coach with Sexual Healing to provide you both with the tools, the awareness and the permission to deepen your intimacy, to discover each other anew, and take your relationship to the next level.

Relationships, intimacy and sex were not things we learned at school, and most of our parents didn’t have much of a clue either, so we’ve had to work it out for ourselves, on the job, and of course we’ve all made some mistakes along the way.

Today many couples are sensing new possibilities available in their relationship; they yearn to co- create an incubator for their personal and mutual growth, built on deep heart connection, raw and open communication and expansive, passionate intimacy. In your couples session we will explore how, together, you can make this a reality.

In a safe, sacred and fun space you will be guided to explore techniques in deep connection, sensual touch, sex magic, communication, boundaries and consent. Each session is catered to your specific needs, goals and desires which will be discussed at the beginning of the session. Respect, boundaries and communication are always paramount.

As your guide, while there may be some touch for demonstration purposes, always with consent, I do not participate in any sexual activity, but assist you along in your exploration together.

This is an opportunity for you both to re-meet each other at a depth you may never have known, to discover, explore and expand into an emotional, erotic and spiritual connection you’ve only ever dreamed of.

Couples Sacred Sexual Healing Fees:

2 hrs: $450

3 hrs: $550

Outcalls within the Sydney or Wollongong metropolitan areas are available for an additional $50.

1 day and weekend full immersive residential retreats in a beautiful bush location are also available upon request

The (R)Evolutionary Relationship Program

  •   Do you long to amplify your relationship from good to amazing?

  •   Do you wish to ignite a blazing inferno of passion between you?

  •   Do you desire to break down all the barriers in the way of a deep, intimate connection?

  •   Do you wish for your relationship to be the incubator of your personal evolution?

    The (R)Evolutionary Relationship Coaching program is an answer to what you seek

    During this 12 week coaching program I will partner with you both to guide you through a customised, dynamic and transformational process where together you will:

  •   Learn to communicate at a level like never before

  •   Seek to align your individual values

  •   Co-create the core value system for your relationship

  •   Connect deeply and get real, vulnerable and intimate with each other

  •   Co-create a vision for your relationship which nurtures the growth, needs and desires of

    both individuals

  •   Explode your sexual connection to previously unimagined levels

  •   Revolutionise your relationship and take it to the next level

    The (R)Evolutionary Relationship Program Fee: $3300

    This can also be experienced as a 2 or 3 day full immersive residential retreat in a beautiful bush location upon request. 


Testimonials

“I recently experienced a beautiful Yoni massage with Nic. He set up the space beautifully and I instantly felt safe, honoured and loved by his presence and respect. Nic is a deeply caring, loving man who holds the utmost integrity. He held space for me to unfold and surrender to the massage with ease and I am truly grateful for the experience. Thank you, Nic.” ~ Juliet Allen Sexologist

“I would like to express my profound gratitude to Nic, who so beautifully, deeply and expertly held the space and gave me my initiation and Sacred Spot ceremony. This was one of the most profound healings I have experienced... and I've been in the health/healing profession 27 years. It was certainly the most intimate!  Thank you dear brother, for your love, devotion to your craft, your passion, professionalism and skill, and for holding me in such a Divine yet fully grounded way.  Needless to say, Nic comes highly recommended!” ~ Isy

“From start to finish the Sexual Healing Session I had with Nic was great. His language is clear, his touch sensitive and his intent embodies and manifests as full integrity. I'm still feeling it integrating days later. “GB

“I first off want to thank you so much Nic for holding me in such a profound space that allowed me to explore myself like never before. I am so grateful for your incredible presence throughout my Yoni Massage experience. 

I had been slightly reluctant to experience a yoni healing massage in the past, not knowing where to look for the right practitioner. Meeting Nic, I felt he was a man of such integrity, doing this work for pure reasons, in service to women from a loving place. I felt a great deal of trust and ease being around him. Despite feeling honestly, quite terrified and nervous on my way to the session, not knowing what to expect or what exactly was going to come up for me, Nic made me feel so comfortable and excited going into the experience.

I felt empowered expressing my needs throughout and I was able to access emotions and sensations that had long been forgotten. I went through a whole body experience of letting go of stuck patterns and feelings that were not serving me. Nic’s ability to witness and be present to what was going on for me was incredibly healing, I felt safe and held the entire time. 

This experience was an embodied reclamation of my self and my pleasure, I’ve felt lighter and greater clarity since. I feel more sensation in my Yoni, more alive and energised. The healing that has come from this experience with Nic could not have been accessed without him, so much gratitude to you Nic. I believe every woman would benefit so greatly from an experience like this. To go to this place with Nic who facilitated this healing for me was so powerful and life changing to say the very least!!”  Stephanie

“We are genuinely grateful to be living our amazing lives together, grateful for the strength of our love, grateful that we each harbour some serious affection and desire for one another... I could go on.  Challenges still exist, but we are well equipped to collectively deal with them with aligned values and optimistic outcomes. So, thanks! Your support during that time has helped us reach where we are today. Many positive vibes and much gracious respect your way.” ~ K & T


Call Nic on: 0404 850143
Email: nic@nictovey.com
Website: www.nictovey.com